Wed Apr 26, 2017 12:46 pm
In light of Tatilina's re-emergence on VCF, and her insistence that I target and harass her purposefully, I felt it appropriate to bring this thread out of the trash. I'm not doing so to further taunt or harass Tat, but to use as proof to those who care at all that I have absolutely no issue being civil with her if she wants to be civil. It wasn't me who instigated any of the mess in this thread, nor was Jess involved (until the very last page obviously). I'll take full responsibility for outing her at VCF 3.0, but my goal there wasn't to shame her or run her off, but just to cut through the bullshit of her pretending to be someone else and not know everyone, and also because she was continually trying to throw sly shade at me and others while pretending to be a new and neutral party which was simply dishonest. She loves to pin her troubles and issues on me and Jess in particular (and Hex I guess) but until she turns back up and begins abusing anyone who disagrees with her, I never give her a single thought; in fact, several times in between her stints on the forums I forgot she existed until she showed back up. If she turned back up and wanted to be civil (as was seemingly the case here) and cool with people then I'm totally fine with her, but once she starts going bonkers on people I'm done with her. I've seen it too many damn times to count. I wish her all the best, but if she is going to blame me for all of her issues then I at least have a right to defend my character with proof against such allegations. So, while I know that the vast majority of people likely understand I'm not the sort of person she seemingly believes I am (though I fully understand that it would be more mature to take the high road and just never speak of any of it again, which I hope to do after this), I'll leave this thread here for all who wish to view it. Own your shit Tat, stop throwing it all over the rest of us. I know that if you happen to see this it won't foster good relations between us, but there never really have been any so oh well.
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