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blasphemy wrote:you know i think this same way. my sister just recently married one of the guys from her youth who was trying to get with her. when she was younger she did not want him. now that she's just past her mid 30s all of sudden she says how much she loves him and how she is going to be a great wife to him. im just like really? it took you i dont know how many guys for you to realize that you love someone that always seem to have felt that way about you?
I'm sorry to say but your sisters case is the norm within Western society. They go through a bunch of men and then when it's time to settle down they find a mate that they would have never slept with in their earlier years. They do this out of necessity. They need a provider because no good looking well accomplished man will want her due to her history. Often these women that settle down have affairs on the side because they just can't deal with being with someone they really don't love, hence why the divorce rates are so high.
blasphemy wrote:i was trying to get with this girl recently i fell in love with her but she believed that love does not exist. she was like fuck love. now im thinking wtf do you mean fuck love? why would i want to be in a relationship with you if you dont love me?
She just doesn't want you and that's why she says that. She believes she can do better than you. Once she meets the man that meets her standards you'll see how fast she believes in love. I've seen this countless times.
blasphemy wrote:i want to be with someone like really bad now but it seems all women are the same. they dont seem to care about me as a person at all. i think i may have to just settle for one of these women if i dont want to die an old lonely man.
Finding a good woman within North America is very difficult especially one that hasn't been brainwashed by Popular Culture. They are around but tough to find. If you can try to find a virgin, which in today's world is hard but not impossible. Statistics show that women with the least amount of sexual partners before marriage have the lowest chances of ending divorced, which makes sense.
Good luck on your journey.